Best Month Ever

It’s so easy to get caught up in what’s wrong, and when I do that, I write a post like this sad December one. When a polar vortex is hitting New York and I have the option to work from home, it’s easy to get stuck in my four walls. That’s not a good placeContinue reading “Best Month Ever”

Things therapy ruined for me: Living for what’s next

I spent a lot of time believing that I would be happier when _________. When I paid off my student loan. When I left Bremerton. When I found a new job. Whatever. I wasn’t making myself happy today. I was waiting to some milestone that wouldn’t really change my mindset. But those were benchmarks, notContinue reading “Things therapy ruined for me: Living for what’s next”

Ready for some emotional vomit?

Tonight I found myself across the table from this guy who just looked sad irritated. I’m sure I reflected his mood. Shortly after, we were on the subway platform arguing. When we got on the train, I could see him hurting. I considered back-tracking, but I couldn’t. I couldn’t go against my feelings just toContinue reading “Ready for some emotional vomit?”