“How’s your social life?” my naturopath asked me at my annual exam.
This is one of the reasons I love seeing a naturopath. She asks me about everything. My diet, my social life, my work, everything. It’s no secret that all these things play into a person’s health.
I had just told her that I’m in grad school and therefore more stressed and strapped for time than usual. I admitted to her that I’ve declined invitations more than I’d like lately.
“It’s really important to maintain friendships,” she said. “And usually they’re the first thing we cast aside when we’re busy. It’s especially important to keep that bond with our girlfriends.”
I nodded. I’m always eager to get the good patient award when I go for a checkup, but I also meant it. I have really great friends. On The Mindy Project, Mindy was criticized for calling a bunch of people her “best friend.” Best means best, you can only have one best. Mindy responds, “best friends are a tier.”
I’ve also been known to use the term “best friend” liberally. And I feel no shame in admitting that.
Last night I was reading the latest issue of Health, where it had an article called 4 People Every Woman Needs in Her Circle. So with that, I present some awards to my tier of best friends.
Kelly, Tara, Quyn, and Richie
This is the team that makes living with generalized anxiety disorder a lot more manageable.
Coley gives me tough love in the kindest way possible, and I love her for it.
Navani and James. If you have an opportunity to hang out with them, you should definitely take it. Except get your own. They’re mine.
The Polar Opposite
Courtney. She keeps me young. When I go to bed at 10, she’s just getting ready to go out.